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Q: I am a 13 year old girl and im in a relationship which is turning out complicated within seconds. Most of the people are getting between us and creating problems for us. Its really fustrating and i dont know who to believe. My boyfriend begs me to believe him but i dont know whether its him to believe or if its them. And worst of all, i still love my ex-boyfriend just as how i love my current boyfriend. And least of all i keep comparing both of them. My love life is soo confusing. HELP..!!!!!!!!

A by Ihma Well...first of all you cant love both ppl the same way...either you love one or you like the other...love and like are totally different...so you hav got to figure that out first...its a good thing to trust the person you dating...hav you ever cought current boyfriend lieing or cought him doing something that your friends and others say...if not you hav no ryt to doubt him, but you'll neva knw how things turn out to be...so its always better that when you first start going out witha person you HAVE to knw him as a friend first...you HAVE to know each other very well...its a normal thing to compare you ex and your bf...it happens to all most everyone...but you have to know that you should never say that to your bf...if you do he'll be hurt, he'll get frustrated too...no one likes being compared...trust me on that :o)But first you really really need to figure out whether you love you bf or like him...!!! because ppl can giv you loads of advice bt you have to make an effert to work it out yourself...hope this helps... :o)

A by Lovexa First of all, you don’t have to believe anyone! You believe yourself and what you see and experience. If there is anything going on with your boyfriend it is you who will know, because you are the one who is with him… Who talks with him ...He’ll be closer to you than any one else telling these stuff about him to you. Who are they to judge? Or criticize or even comment?? It is YOUR relationship! So only believe your heart, if you see any changes in ur bf… the way he talks to you.. the way he treats you… then maybe there’s a possibility that somethings going on.. But remember don’t just believe what others say. However, don’t even trust ur bf 100%. You should not trust anyone 100%. Even if u do, don’t let him know that you do.
Don’t believe what you hear, always believe what you see with ur own eyes, not thru the eyes of another.
Do not compare ur x and ur present bf. Both of them are totally different people. You’ll only make the situation worse by doing so And you cannot love two people at once. Try to weigh them both. You’ll find out that you love one and the other is just an infatuation.
If you love ur x bf, it means u’re still not over him and is not fair for ur current bf.
If you love ur current bf, then try and forget the past and try to make ur current relationship work.
Before you take any decisions please think twice. Your effort counts.